This is such a solid reframe. The shift from challenge to practice changes everything, especially with kids in the mix. “Faith isn’t proven by never missing a step, but by choosing to return after we do” really landed. That feels way more sustainable than chasing a perfect streak. Really thoughtful work here.
I like the part where you rephrased something and got positive results. I have an empty nest now but when they come home, I don’t say “When are you leaving?” That sounds like I don’t want them here. Instead, I ask: “How long do we have you til?” Reframing your words makes all the difference!
The words we use are sometimes more important then message we are trying to convey. A small reframe like the one you included sends way better messaging to the people we love!
This is such a solid reframe. The shift from challenge to practice changes everything, especially with kids in the mix. “Faith isn’t proven by never missing a step, but by choosing to return after we do” really landed. That feels way more sustainable than chasing a perfect streak. Really thoughtful work here.
I appreciate it! I still love chasing a good streak, but not everything needs to be all or nothing. We are allowed to return after a misstep!
Small daily resets for the win! 🙌
Thanks Matt!
Really enjoyed this reframe. Making things sustainable is more important than setting impressive goals that cause nothing but pressure.
I can relate to the idea that a challenge that motivates me can create friction for my family. Always trying to find the balance.
Thanks Leo. It took me awhile to figure it out, but leaning into what motivates my kids is better for them and for me in the short and long term.
I love the idea of switching up "giving up" for "what shall we practise". Such a positive framing.
I appreciate it. It landed way different for them and for me.
I like the part where you rephrased something and got positive results. I have an empty nest now but when they come home, I don’t say “When are you leaving?” That sounds like I don’t want them here. Instead, I ask: “How long do we have you til?” Reframing your words makes all the difference!
Thanks for the comment!
The words we use are sometimes more important then message we are trying to convey. A small reframe like the one you included sends way better messaging to the people we love!