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Leo Rule | Align Your Family's avatar

Reminding myself life is not all about me. It's not my default but when I have that mindset it becomes a lot easier to serve so my family can thrive.

Jeremy L's avatar

100%.

The moment I try to measure what I give vs. what I get, fatherhood humbles me instantly.

Turns out my kids don’t do transactions…

they only do memories.

Harshi Peiris, Ph.D.'s avatar

These are the kinds of reminders I honestly forget until the day gets chaotic, so this landed at the right time. It’s funny how the smallest actions end up shaping the whole tone of a gathering. I like the way you frame it — not as pressure, but as presence. Makes the idea of helping feel lighter and more doable.

Jeremy L's avatar

I appreciate the comment! It is so easy to get swept into the chaos and then let frustration be your leading emotion. If we can focus more on helping, gratitude, and presence.....

frustration ends up getting squeezed out, which makes everyone feel better.