Identity the inner critic before it beats you up too bad
From my experience in coaching, yelling just makes the kid that much more anxious. They start saying, "Please, don't throw it to me." We need to be encouraging so their confidence turns that into, "Please, throw it to me." Good encouraging words.
Yep. Turns out yelling “DO BETTER” at yourself works about as well as it does with tired kids…
briefly,
and then not at all.
From my experience in coaching, yelling just makes the kid that much more anxious. They start saying, "Please, don't throw it to me." We need to be encouraging so their confidence turns that into, "Please, throw it to me." Good encouraging words.
Yep. Turns out yelling “DO BETTER” at yourself works about as well as it does with tired kids…
briefly,
and then not at all.