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BeBetter's avatar

Great read! I don’t have kid but before bed I always write one moment that made my day. Just something special, I didn’t think it had so much power like you explain it. Thank you for sharing.

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Daily Dad Reset's avatar

Thanks for leaning into this. I think you’re spot on, gratitude isn’t age- or role-specific.

It reshapes the brain whether you’re a dad at the dinner table, a brother in conversation, or a kid just learning how to name the good.

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Tracy Friedlander's avatar

I love the gratitude effect. I think I'm going to start this with my daughter, I love your suggestion

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Daily Dad Reset's avatar

Thanks! It is one of my favorites as long as I can remember to do it!

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Jimmy Tshimenga's avatar

Thank you for the gentle reminder that closing the day with gratitude sets the soul’s tone for rest and renewal. That’s why I value pausing each night to count small blessings. It turns ordinary moments into quiet prayers of strength and peace.

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Daily Dad Reset's avatar

Thanks for reading! Reminding myself of a couple of small blessings from the day with my boys almost always turns into a waterfall of amazing things that all make us smile. I don’t do it every night, but my sleep is better when I do.

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Crosswind Chronicles's avatar

This is gold. My kids think “bedtime routine” means last call for chaos, so introducing a gratitude round might be the only thing that keeps me from refereeing toothpaste duels every night. I like the reminder that it doesn’t have to be profound either. Some nights, I’m just grateful no one flushed a toy down the toilet.

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Daily Dad Reset's avatar

I used to (and still sometimes do) get lost thinking gratitude has to sound like a perfectly crafted, Dead Poets Society speech. But honestly, simple wins.

What I really want (for my boys and for myself) is to notice gratitude in the everyday stuff, not just in the big moments like winning a championship game. A yummy dinner, a funny joke, a good book; those are all chances to be grateful for things most people rush past or take for granted.

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Crosswind Chronicles's avatar

Right there with you. My toddler’s gratitude list usually involves dinosaurs or snacks, and my newborn’s contribution is just a burp. Simple wins still count.

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